Going on solo adventures is always a unique experience. But isn’t it more fun and exciting to try something new with others? Before you start searching for great adventure buddies, you might want to ask yourself: Are you the perfect adventure friend others are looking for as well? It is important to take time for self-reflection to see if you’re someone others would like to travel with. Listed below are five things to remember to make sure you fit the role of a great adventure buddy:
Limit complaints and negativity.
If you’re looking for a hassle-free trip, you might as well stay at home. You can always prepare to minimize the inconveniences that travel brings, but people with adventurous spirits don’t let obstacles affect them or their trip in a bad way. Negative behavior can ruin the trip and can affect other people in your troop. Instead, opt to spread good vibes and improve everyone’s mood by staying cheerful and positive. One way to limit negativity is by practicing gratitude. Be thankful for the adventure and the people you are with. Thinking about the opportunity you have on your trip will help you focus on the positive things.
Be respectful.
Diversity may be everywhere but differences won’t be a problem if everyone shows respect to one another. Always remember that respect is a two-way street. If you want to receive respect, accept that the views of others may differ without judgment. You can’t expect others to think or act the same way you do, but you can change the way you react to it. Instead of looking at diversity as a source of conflict, instead, see it as an opportunity for learning. Being exposed to people with different backgrounds can broaden and enlighten your mind.
Resolve to do more.
For an organized group adventure, participants may be assigned certain responsibilities. While your travel buddies will be grateful for you to do your part, consider going a little above and beyond. Maybe you have extra time and can lend a hand to others. Be a valuable companion by seeking out more ways you can help.
Be a problem solver.
It’s normal to go into an adventure hoping everything will be perfect. But it isn’t always what happens. You may even notice a lot of room for improvement. But being a good adventure buddy means working through it. Instead, think of solutions that you can suggest to the group. If you meet problems with solutions, you can look forward to even better adventures to come. You also make travel a more comfortable and positive experience for the people you are with.
Show independence.
You may be traveling with a group, but you can’t expect your travel buddies to be responsible for you. So in one aspect, it is a good idea to get ready for an adventure as if you are going on a trip alone. This mindset will urge you to familiarize yourself with the area and equip yourself with the necessary items you need for an enjoyable trip. By doing it this way, you avoid being a burden to others. Instead, you become an asset to a group because being prepared will allow you to contribute ideas or offer help to others when needed.
People typically love and crave adventures. Our daily routines provide comfort and stability, but once in a while, we still feel the need to do something out of the ordinary. As adventures keep the zest in life burning, it is inevitable that we find ourselves wondering — what makes a great adventure? Surely, it is not as simple as blindly plunging into the unknown. It takes great planning, wisdom and courage. Another thing that makes an adventure unforgettable are the people you share the experiences with. But before searching for your perfect travel buddies, start by making sure you are a great one yourself.
